We’ve walked beside teens and families dealing with each of these in the last few months.
Why would God peel so many layers from our naive eyes in such a short time? I’m not sure yet.
It hasn’t been easy talking with our children (16, 13) about such enormous topics. Especially one right after the other. Honestly, it hasn’t been our choice to have these conversations, but circumstances required diving deep and searching the Scriptures for answers. And, in each conversation, God has been gracious.
It’s almost as if we hear God saying, “You have protected them, loved them, taught them and given them a firm foundation. Now, it’s time for each of you to see satan’s work in this world more clearly. And, I’m calling you to do something about it for the sake of my lost sheep.”
What is He calling us to do? We have no idea. Our hearts and minds are stirring. We are watching God work in beautiful ways and wonder when and where He will open the door for us to step in.
Hug your children today. Love them. Teach them God’s Word. Give them God’s grace. Know there will be a day when God says it’s time to open their eyes so they can be used by Him in this imperfect, hurting world. Thank Him deeply for the opportunity to homeschool – to bring them up in His precious nurture and admonition.
And pray for this world. He is our only hope.
Homeschooling Imperfection at my house? Yes. Oh, yes.
I love homeschooling. Love it. But let me tell you, some moments aren’t warm and fuzzy. Homeschooling is life. Real life. And real life can be tough.
A messy house, piles of laundry and dishes, not knowing what we’ll eat for supper…at suppertime, a lawn begging to be mowed. And these only describe the household imperfections!
Children who whine about school work, lessons I forgot to prepare, appointments that break up our week, pieces of projects laying all over the house. I could go on and on. I’ll spare you the rest of the gory details because I have a feeling you might already know them. Am I right?
Focusing on all the imperfection seems to come naturally, doesn’t it? Why do we beat ourselves up so often over our failures?
I think I know. The thief. Yes, the thief.
The thief comes only to steal and kill and destroy. I came that they may have life and have it abundantly. ~John 10:10
The thief wants nothing more than to keep us frustrated, overwhelmed, grouchy and feeling like failures. Look at the second half of that verse again, though. Jesus came to give us Abundant Life. A life that is plentiful, even overly-sufficient. When we focus on the abundance He has provided, the importance of all those imperfections fades.
Finally, brothers and sisters, whatever is true, whatever is noble, whatever is right, whatever is pure, whatever is lovely, whatever is admirable—if anything is excellent or praiseworthy—think about such things. ~Philippians 4:8
When the thief tries to pull my focus toward the imperfect, I choose to turn the other way and see the Abundant Life He provides daily. I CHOOSE.
How do I choose? When it’s hard to find the successes in the midst of perfection, I might:
- take a Bible and/or prayer break.
- look through old pictures (because the have captured the “good” times.)
- take a walk and praise God for His wonderful creation. My continual praises refresh my mind to “think about such things” when I get back home.
- pick one imperfect thing and make a plan to improve it.
- take a day to myself (because I sometimes feel like a frozen computer screen that needs to be rebooted!)
- do something fun with the kids to refresh all our attitudes.
And the peace of God, which transcends all understanding, will guard your hearts and your minds in Christ Jesus. ~Philippians 4:7
Peace. Doing these things brings fullness and peace to my heart – and the imperfections take their proper place.
Have you ever read Beyond Survival: A Guide to Abundant-Life Homeschooling or Reaping the Harvest: The Bounty of Abundant-Life Homeschooling (affiliate links) by Diana Waring? If you’re overwhelmed with the frustrations of homeschooling, these help put the good, bad and ugly in perspective.
I’m glad my homeschool is imperfect. Yes, I said “I’m glad.” It means Jesus is still working on me.
And I am certain that God, who began the good work within you, will continue his work until it is finally finished on the day when Christ Jesus returns. ~Philippians 1:6
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NaturExplorers studies are very versatile. They offer nature walks, hands-on projects and project-based learning ideas on more than 20 topics! Not to mention literature lists, artist and composer studies suggestions, poetry tie-ins and notebooking pages. Written with the 1st-8th grader in mind, there are additional ideas to include preschoolers and high school students. Oh, and co-ops, too!
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Other Great PBL Resources
Better Than Book Reports is book is full of great ideas for projects as they relate to literature. I’ve found the project ideas easily transferable to research/history/science topics as well. The following three are very similar to this one, but I’m finding that they are probably out-of-print. I’ve linked you to their webpages anyway since they can all still be purchased through Amazon new/used sellers.
Student Product Development & Evaluation was sent to me as a review product. Although not quite as visual, there are lots of very thorough ideas – especially project ideas for older children and teens. A large list of project ideas is given, with about 40 of those ideas fleshed out for you with book lists, websites and possible rubrics. This is not my favorite of the books I use for ideas, but it has it’s place, especially for the upper school years.
Easy File Folder Reports is simple for mom and children. Each topic has reproducible pages where your child fills out the papers during their research and attaches them to a file folder. Usually, a small hands-on project is suggested for a 3-dimensional addition to the report.
Feel free to add you most-used PBL resources in the comments!
Thank you for joining me during this series! Before too long, I plan to publish a book about PBL with much, much more detail and direction. Until then, go ahead and dive into PBL in your homeschool!
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Help! I can’t think of project ideas!
Never fear, I have a huge list of ideas for you. Let your children be in on choosing the projects as often as possible. Since the project is supposed to be “theirs” anyway, helping to choose the project will go a long way in accomplishing this!
- Active Game
- Board Game
- Cereal Box Report
- Children’s Book
- Compare/Contrast Paper
- Comparison Poster
- Complete a Task
- Design a Puzzle
- Fictional Story
- File Folder Report
- Fix Something
- Game Show
- Historical Fiction
- Lesson for Younger Children
- Letter to the Editor
- Magazine Article
- Magic Act
- Newspaper Article
- Opinion Paper
- Paper Bag Report
- Personal Narrative
- Plan (Party, Shopping Trip, Chore Schedule, etc.)
- Poster Person
- Power Point
- Puppet Show
- Research Paper
- Scavenger Hunt
- Science Fair Board
- Service Project
- Show What You Know Any Way You Like
- Start a Business
I also have a Pinterest Board just full of Project-Based Learning Ideas.
Tomorrow is the last day of this series. I’ll share some of the best-of-the-best project-based resources I’ve come across over the years. Don’t miss it!
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